Some people always confuse love with some other feelings too. This is because the gap between true love and the other feelings are just a thread thin. Here are just a few easy ways to differentiate them.
1. Infatuation – You love a person because of beauty. People who fall in love at first sight belong to this category. The external appearance is the root cause here. Chances of losing the love are high, if the appearance, the external beauty is lost.
2. Pity – You love a person because he or she needs your care. When a person says that your presence gives happiness and soothes off the pains, and so hence in love with you and wish to have you by the side all the time, then it cannot be a true love. Don’t get confused.
3. Lust – You love a person because you think you need his/her warmness. This is a kind of physical feelings and attractions. It will go off with time, and cannot exist for long as it is not love.
4. Fear – You love a person because he/she may hurt you if you don’t love. Such a person may just try to spoil your name and exploit you, if you don’t accept the love. The love created due to fear will have hatred in a hidden form. This spoils entire life. Be bold and express yourself truly.
5. Selfishness – You love a person because you are benefited by that love. If your mind calculates quickly the benefits, when a person expresses his/her love, then yours is nothing but selfishness and cannot be a true love. Benefits here means, for example you can get monetary benefits or costly gifts by accepting the love.
6. Friendship – You love a person because he/she understands you all the time. If a person is capable of understanding you at all times and is good enough to carry forward you, when you are down, then it could be a true and worth friendship. Analyze well, instead of getting confused. Don’t lose a good friendship because of your misconception.
7. Business – You love a person because you both have give and take policy. Few people love each other, because both are mutually benefited. A girl studying medicine may love a guy because he is wealthy enough to build a hospital for her whereas that guy loves this girl in turn because he can proudly say that his girl is a doctor.
8. Crazy – You love a person because you think you cannot live without seeing him/her. This is mere craziness and not true love. Some people cannot spend a day without watching a particular serial in TV. They feel mad on the day they missed to watch it. There is no difference between such people and you.
9. Fame Seeking - You love a person because all your friends think you as a best pair. Most of the college romance falls in this category. Just to show friends, that you are capable of capturing the heart of the one, whom everyone thinks as a best match. More than true love, just a show off nature makes a bond here.
10. LOVE – You love a person because you feel the pain when he/she is injured, you get tears when his/her eyes got pain. You cannot find a soothing word, but can be on the side, throughout your life. You fight with him/her, but still cannot go away from him/her. True love never expects anything. It just lets you to remain what you are. The unconditional love, keeps loving you even when you hurt or hate. That is true love. Never miss it. Good luck.
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