Do's and Donot's of Love

When you are in love, you have to deal with two hearts. Dealing with yours is your choice. But dealing with the one you won and wants to keep as your own needs some care before you make it as a permanent win.

You have to follow few rules to win the heart as well as after winning :)

Do's and Dont's of Love - For Men

1. Talk to her directly. Never keep a messenger for you. Else you risk your love. Gals donot like a person who doesnot have guts even to express his love directly.

2. Be on her side when required. Gals are more emotional. Try to understand. Donot judge them as a weaker part of yours and never compare her with anyone. She cannot tolerate some one getting more importance in your heart than her.

3. Don't make fun on her, before others. Most gals are sensitive and cannot tolerate this. Never let her down. Also never break any secrets she told to you, to your friends. She trusted you that much to tell her secret. Respect her feelings.

4. Say the truth always. Sometimes she may fight with you. But she trusts you in long run and won't believe others. If get caught for a lie once, then you will be under suspection whenever situation turns against you.

5. Use sweet words like sweet heart, honey, my love, etc... now and then. Words are more powerful in expressing you than your costly gifts.

6. Though true love doesnot expect costly gifts, it is worth to give some small gifts and cards to express your love, when you run out of words.

7. Don't trust a gal who loves you just because you look stylish or you are rich. She may change you when she finds some one who is better than you in style and richness.

Do's and Dont's of Love - For Women

1. Trust him. Guys don't like a person who are not ready to trust them. But be cautious. Don't let him take bad advantages on you because of your trust. Trust here means, if he says something which is little hard to believe, don't argue and just show you trust him and so ready to believe it.

2. Give him space to breath. Though he is your own, he cannot give up his friends and their meets immediately for you. Don't try to hold him at all his free time. Understand him and don't argue with him asking who is more important, whether you or his friends.

3. Don't make comments on his friends. It will show as if he was with wrong friends so far and he may feel low. If you really think his friends are wrong, just say it with reasons instead of just commenting.

4. Never compare him with anyone. The most hurting for a guy is comparing him with others. He will feel inferior and in turn may compare you with some one else, which you don't like for sure.

5. Never love a man by apperance. He may look stylish or he may be rich. But this cannot be a base for true love. He can attract many mores with this qualification. Never trust a man who loves you just because you are beautiful. A butterfly will fly to next flower once when honey gets over in a flower.

6. Whenever you meet, don't take 90% of the time for you to talk. Give him chance. He too will have something to share with you. Give your ears to hear him and keep your mouth shut for sometime.

7. Being possessive is not bad. But over possessiveness leads you in the path of destruction. Chances are high for breaking of relation.
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Hey come on, don't expect me to tell each and everything for you. Just try to follow the above said, and you yourself will learn the rest. I cannot be there in behalf of you in all situations. So, all the very best and go ahead.

After a small break, lets meet.... Mythili Shiju